The truth about the Law of Attraction: Why can't some people attract what they want?
There is a secret rule. Changing your negative ideas and saying "Don't suffer" will only invite more suffering. It is better to say, "I am happy, I am on the road to happiness." When you know what you want, The law of attraction will have an effect. But you also have to be able to bear the loss before you can bear the possession. Only when you are relaxed enough can you think things better.
Secret: Convert your negative ideas
I have a friend, nicknamed Little Witch, who has no faith, but often prays to the universe and often receives surprises from the universe.
For example, if she wants a new mobile phone, she will receive a mobile phone from a friend after two days; she prays that the road to the customer will be smooth, and sure enough, there will be no congestion on the elevated traffic during that time;
She even used this secret law to usher in the second spring of her life,
She made a list and wrote down her 67 conditions for her future partner,
For example, she loves pets, loves children, and can speak two foreign languages. Of course, she can meet these requirements herself.
As a result, she really got what she wanted and found the boyfriend she likes, who actually met her 90% of the conditions!
We have to marvel that she achieved this miracle.
Things happen because of their own mental model. For example, a pessimistic person sees everything is pessimistic. Once a tragedy occurs, while crying and secretly proud of it, do you think my judgment is accurate?
I want to do everything I want, plant a positive seed in my subconscious, get rid of the inherent patterns of "impossible" and "I can't do", and bloom with self-energy!
For example, during that time, my little witch friend would often hint to himself: I was walking on the road to happiness.
Every time I waited for the bus, I said to myself, look, my happiness is like the bus I'm waiting for, sooner or later, but the difference between five minutes and ten minutes.
Why does the law of attraction fail?
But it is very interesting that some people have used this law to change this destiny, and many people have fallen again on this road.
We all long for "dreams to come true." The universe is very generous. The question is, do you really only have such a wish?
For example, you love someone and want to spend your life with him, but really?
At the same time, do you feel that this is impossible, you are not worthy of him, you are not worthy of happiness?
If so, your desire to spend a lifetime with him is naturally difficult to realize, because the generous universe will also help you realize another idea.
The key is the choice we made deep in our hearts-what on earth do I want.
Maltz believes that the subconscious mind has magical abilities-as long as you set a target, the subconscious guidance system will help you approach and hit the target.
But why do many people fail to hit their goals?
That's because your consciousness not only enters the target, but also enters the target that you are not aware of.
For example, you might say "I want to make money" on the one hand, and on the other hand, the self-image is that "the rich are bad guys"; on the one hand, you say that I am eager to succeed, on the other hand, I am inferior...
Let us return to the story of the little witch. Has she lived a happy life ever since?
In fact, they, like all their partners in the world, have entered a period of war and running-in after the honeymoon period.
She has too strong thoughts, which just becomes an obstacle at this stage.
She has been very strong since she was a child, and everything should be good and excellent, so the law of attraction is also particularly attractive to her.
Because of this, she is particularly afraid of showing her negative thoughts and emotions, and she cannot accept that she is essentially a sad person;
It is precisely because she did not perceive and accept her internal conflicts, and she cannot accept when her partner is depressed, so disputes often arise.
The most fundamental change in the situation lies in the insight into one's inner psychology, and the change in concepts and behavior patterns. If a person is in a predicament, it is basically certain that there must be two diametrically opposed voices fighting.
For example, we all yearn for happy love and marriage, but often cannot ask for it. Why?
It is often because our subconscious mind is doing bad things, especially those unconscious thinking patterns that unconsciously identify with.
A visitor, because she was abandoned by her parents since she was a child, has a strong sense of abandonment and unworthiness, subconsciously longing for a tragic emotional life, psychologically called "compulsive repetition", so she likes to find someone Reliable men do not like stable and secure men.
Only when she is aware of this pattern and willing to break this cycle, can she use the law of attraction to be effective.
Another friend, the boyfriend I was looking for, always encountered the obstruction of the man’s family, why, because she was looking for men who hadn’t really grown up, pacifiers who listened to their parents.
So once the parents object, the relationship will enter a dead end.
The focus of the question is, why are you looking for a pacifier?
This needs to be explored. Maybe find a weak man who has a sense of control, maybe in the original family, his role is misplaced.
Only when we understand ourselves the clearer and deeper, the more simple and direct the wishes we send out, and the universe can receive the true expectations of our hearts.
The more persistent you are, the easier you will lose
Why do we have a strong mind and still can't attract what we want?
In addition to being aware of our patterns, we also need to understand this wonderful law-the more persistent you are, the easier you will lose.
Take a little witch, for example, the behavior pattern in her roots is: she is strong, everything must be good, everything must be excellent, which also explains why she is so obsessed with what she wants and because she feels that she can get what she wants. .
Attachment to the good, in line with one's own minds, the more disliked birth, old age, sickness, death, growth, staying, and bad emptiness that do not conform to one's own minds, avoiding and resisting, hoping to be in a good mood every day, in a positive state, and depressed and sad to oneself She doesn't accept her emotions at all. In fact, she has too much sadness buried in her heart, but on the surface she is a particularly happy and hearty person.
Once attached, the world will test her. Marriage and children are all homework.
Looking back at what you want to do, the most fundamental principle is that no matter what happens, whether it is in line with your own heart or not, it is all OK and can be readily accepted. The so-called positive and negative aspects of good and bad are the two of people’s hearts. Yuan respectively.
We can afford to lose, and we can also afford to possess.
If you must be attached to a certain form of existence or supremacy, you will be restrained.
Of course, human nature likes to possess. If I say this, you learn to bear the loss and distance first, and then you can learn how to possess. Is it easier to attract people?
Or, to be more literary, the heart is like a container, the more empty it can receive more existence, the so-called vacuum wonderful existence.
How to achieve what you want?
On this basis, when we look at what we want is done, we will understand more how to attract what we want and live the life we want.
First of all, we must have insight into our own model and motives, let the contradictory side of the subconscious and surface consciousness surface, release it, that is, break free from the original model and reshape the inner self-image.
For example, seeing one's desire for a happy marriage while being trapped in the mode of a native family, and feeling that oneself is not worthy of the ambivalence of happiness.
Secondly, after reshaping the self-image after insight, the surface consciousness and the subconscious will be integrated, which will truly make your goal very simple. In other words, if you really set a goal, the subconscious will automatically help you achieve it.
Wu Zhihong once mentioned a case where the botanist Luis Agassi has been working to figure out the fish fossil embedded in a stone.
Being puzzled, he put his work aside and tried to get rid of all this from his head.
He repeatedly said to himself at night: I clearly saw the fish, and so on the third night, he took paper and pen and put it by the bed before going to bed. When it was almost morning, the fish appeared In the dream, it was vague at first, but its zoology characteristics eventually became very clear.
How to achieve what you want?
On this basis, when we look at what we want is done, we will understand more how to attract what we want and live the life we want.
First of all, we must have insight into our own model and motives, let the contradictory side of the subconscious and surface consciousness surface, release it, that is, break free from the original model and reshape the inner self-image.
For example, seeing one's desire for a happy marriage while being trapped in the mode of a native family, and feeling that oneself is not worthy of the ambivalence of happiness.
Secondly, after reshaping the self-image after insight, the surface consciousness and the subconscious will be integrated, which will truly make your goal very simple. In other words, if you really set a goal, the subconscious will automatically help you achieve it.
Wu Zhihong once mentioned a case where the botanist Luis Agassi has been working to figure out the fish fossil embedded in a stone.
Being puzzled, he put his work aside and tried to get rid of all this from his head.
He repeatedly said to himself at night: I clearly saw the fish, and so on the third night, he took paper and pen and put it by the bed before going to bed. When it was almost morning, the fish appeared In the dream, it was vague at first, but its zoology characteristics eventually became very clear.
One day, with his fingers still out of sight, he wrote these characteristics on the paper beside the bed while he was half asleep and half awake.
On the morning of the fourth day, he was surprised to see his sketch, which was used as a guide to dig through the surface of the fossil.
When the fish was fully revealed, it was exactly the same as the sketch, so he quickly determined its species.
This shows that as long as you set a goal, you can give it to your subconscious mind to work. At this time, you don't even need to work hard, but the more relaxed the better.
Relaxation is an easier channel to find answers.
Trying to hide a logic "I can find the answer", and relaxation is "I want to relax my nervous nerves and open the door to the universe".
In other words, I did not find the answer, but because I opened the channel, the answer came automatically.
Therefore, Edison said: "Thoughts are in the air."
There is nothing in the universe.
Therefore, only if you are relaxed enough, this may be the core secret of getting what you want.
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