The "law of attraction" of love

Like someone or something, it seems that there is always a mysterious magnetic field, and if the magnetic fields match, they will attract and approach each other. This kind of "law of attraction" means that when thoughts are concentrated in a certain field, people and things related to this field will be attracted by it. In love, there is also such a "law of attraction".

Attraction in love is really a wonderful thing. Unconsciously, indulging in TA's gentle eye waves, this is the attraction on the edge of the eye, or will appreciate TA's kindness, tact, self-confidence, grace and other qualities, which is more inclined to inner attraction.

And how does this attraction happen? What kind of people will each unique person attract?

Bruce McClelland wrote in the book "Imagination Brings Wealth": "You are what you think, not what you think you are." There is also a saying, "What kind of person you are What kind of people will it attract."

People with similar or complementary views, personalities, people in the same circle, and people with similar interests will gradually be attracted to each other. The reason why two people are together is because the other person has something that attracts you, and what allows this "attraction" to continue healthily must not be external things such as the other person's appearance or family background, but one's heart Talk and behave.

Last week's "If You Are the One", the male guest Zeng Yingsheng put forward two requirements for choosing a spouse: one is that he hopes his spouse can maintain personality and financial independence, and can share the beauty and happiness with himself on the basis of a good life; the other is hope The partner stays motivated and runs a vibrant life together. The male guest is also an independent and self-motivated person, and it is precisely people who are similar to him that attract him.

In "We Who Cannot Be Beasts", Deep Sea Crystal, who works equally hard for work and love, and Yuanxingxing, an accountant root who is cynical about everything, are both people who dare not speak their own voices, and put emphasis on armor. . After a job, the pair of men and women wearing solid armors met in the club. They told each other the truth they could only tell strangers. In each encounter, the two hearts slowly approached.

Attraction is mutual, what kind of people you will attract when you show to others. If you are in full bloom and the breeze is coming, try to enrich your life and live a colorful life every day. In the process of making yourself excellent, you will not be far from the same excellent TA.

Secondly, we must also know how to find the common ground between you and the other person, so that the greater the probability that you and the TA will build a connection in certain aspects. When you have more connections, your attraction to each other will gradually increase at this moment, and there will be more topics between you to develop, which is conducive to the healthy development of your relationship.

For love, we should know how to focus on how to love, how to love, then our own behavior motives will be very different at this time, more sincere and pure. The best love is that two people maintain appropriate differences. In this process, they attract each other, care for each other, and grow together.