Must-see "Law of Attraction": What you attract is what you expect!

 Let us first talk about what is the "law of attraction"? The so-called "law of attraction" is also called the law of attraction, which means that when a person's thoughts are completely concentrated on a certain aspect, people, things, and things related to this aspect will be attracted by it.

       For example, for a person with a negative heart, the first thing he thinks of when encountering anything is the bad aspects, while ignoring the positive aspects, then his attention and thoughts will all focus on the negative aspects, because he always ignores the positive aspects. On the bright side, what he gets in the end is often negative. From another perspective, it is to attract some negative things through his "negative attraction".

     Therefore, each of us should pay attention to our own thoughts and words, eliminate the poverty and negative things in our hearts, and replace them with good thinking.

    In the past few days, I have successively received messages from many netizens saying that the Spring Festival is approaching, and I feel an inexplicable anxiety and fear in my heart. In fact, the main negative emotion in most people's lives is fear.

    When a person is more afraid of something, he is actually attracting these things, as if he desires it.

     I know that many people will feel confused at this point, and don't understand why this is the case. How could this happen? The reason is that whether a person desires something or fears something (the two situations actually follow the same principle), he will paint a realistic scene of the event in his brain, and This mental picture tends to be specific.

      For example, when my mother used to teach me to sew clothes, I was afraid of the needle sticking my hand, so I always said over and over again: "Don't stick your hand!" At this time, because of fear, my brain constantly produced a picture of the needle sticking my hand and making me painful, and it didn't take long for me to really stick my hand!

     Also, when I was learning to ride a bicycle when I was a child, I was always afraid of falling. While I was learning to ride, I murmured "Don't fall, but I fell down after a while." We also need to analyze the psychological mechanism behind the fall to see how we make unwanted things become reality through attraction. First of all, I have seen others fall while riding a bicycle, and I have empathy when seeing the fall so miserably, and seem to experience the pain of others; then, when I learn to ride a bicycle, I have fear in my heart, so I learn to ride On the side of the car, images or scenes of falling down while riding a bike are constantly appearing in the brain, and even images of falling down due to a certain mistake appear. As a result, when the attention is slightly distracted, a fall phenomenon occurs.

     Because there is such a picture in our brain-and if it lasts long enough, people will attract related things or conditions, so "thoughts are embodied into actions and actual beings." .

     So you see, unless you get rid of fear, it may draw you towards what you fear, or force you towards it.

      You may ask: "Then how can I attract the positive things that I want?"

       This is actually not difficult, you need to constantly change your mindset, ideas and beliefs. Mindset is the sum of a person's thoughts, ideas, ideals, feelings and beliefs.

      When you are constantly constructing a positive attitude every day, that positive attitude is not only shaping your character, but also affecting the outside world.

     Anyone who is thoughtful and observant has noticed the effect of the law of attraction in the field of mind. A person’s mentality is like a magnet, attracting all things, objects, conditions, environments and people that are in harmony with this mentality. Come by this person.

      Every one of us should pay attention to our own thoughts and words, eliminate fear, anxiety, and poverty, and replace them with positive, happy, happy, and prosperous thinking.

       To change our mindset, we must first change our views and beliefs about some things. Just like the two examples I gave above, to change your mind is to reverse the order of things! For example, if you want to make yourself self-confident, you want to make yourself positive and sunny, then you need to build your own mentality in your brain before you are truly confident, positive, and sunny, and imagine a self-confident attitude and appearance. Even your appearance, etc., when you continue to produce such images in your brain, your behavior and mentality will follow.