Law of Attraction: What kind of people do you like will naturally attract such people to your side

 

There is a person who has never had a good time, seems to be able to achieve everything he wants, and considers himself a person who is favored by God.

When he was a child, he hoped to be the central figure of a group of playmates. In fact, he has been the central one in the hearts of all the children since childhood.

In high school, he liked a girl who liked to laugh in the next class. In every busy class, even a quick glance from the corner of the window was enough to make him throb. He thought it was just a young secret. Soon after, the girl came to He confessed.

Leaving the ivory tower to enter the society, others are at a loss, but he is like a fish in the water.

He claims to be a "blessed man" and thinks that luck is the biggest reason for success. But nothing happens again and again, once or twice depends on luck, but there are so many things, obviously these "smooth" points to one thing-the law of attraction.

Law of Attraction

The law of attraction is also known as the law of attraction, which means that when thoughts are concentrated in a certain field, people, things, and things related to this field will be attracted by it.

As the saying goes, "Things gather and divide people into groups", and just as the physics world believes that any mass object has attraction, human thoughts also have attraction.

The "Law of Attraction" was truly recognized in a report published in a newspaper.

At the end of the last century, a well-known American newspaper published an article discussing Colorado's "wealth and the gold rush". It was the first report on the Law of Attraction. This was the first time this concept emerged from the academic world and appeared in the public eye.

What you think in your mind will be attracted to your side. This is the law of attraction. But in life this is often despised by people, and even considered by many to be human self-deception.

At the end of the last century, American scholars conducted an experiment on whether test scores would be affected by positive ideals. In this experiment, students were divided into three equal groups:

The first group of students is a positive ideal group, they need to spend a fixed time every day to imagine the feelings and changes after achieving ideal results.

The second group of students is a regular group, they need to imagine every day-remember their own test time and place, and how to prepare for the test related matters.

The third group of students is the control group. They do not have any imagination tasks, and only need to review step by step.

The results of the test are unexpected and reasonable: the first group of students have the lowest test scores, and they have good imagination about the test scores every day, and they have confidence, but the hidden danger lies in this. The confidence in advance makes preparations no longer The gongs and drums are intensive and slack.

The second group of students had the best test results.

 

On the one hand, they have a real-world vision of the exam, which is conducive to the refinement of the preparation work and pay attention to all aspects related to the exam; on the other hand, they combine the imagined situation with the actual situation to make plans and put them into practice, and the final results are satisfactory.

From this, some people concluded that: human consciousness is limited and not attractive.

However, the fact is that the law of attraction often acts on our daily lives in a more scientific and reasonable way.

People always have longing and longing for praise. There is a girl who wants to hear everyone praise her for being beautiful and slender after she returns to school. In the end, the weight loss was really beautiful and thin, and it was praised by everyone.

This example is the best comment on the law of attraction-focus, conviction, and action.

Going back to the beginning of the article "The Person Blessed by God", how did his smooth winds come true?

  

He wanted to be the center since he was a child, and he firmly believed that his care is important, so he always shared his snacks, toys, and information with every playmate around him.

In high school, he insisted on caring about the people and things around him, and helped the "girl from the class next door" before he even noticed the girl's smile. In his work, he takes every task and every colleague seriously, and the leaders have a deep trust in him.

In fact, the law of attraction can also be said to be the initiative of consciousness. Out of thought, so focus your mind on what you want.

Second, you must firmly believe that you can do it.

The person mentioned in the previous article did not realize his own efforts, thinking that all these "good luck" were just thinking about it, and ignoring the concentration and belief in it.

Of course, it can't be a thing that can get an ideal from a dream, it needs to be put into action to get close to the ideal.

The person mentioned in the article, in fact, is constantly working hard for the ideal things in his heart, earnestly being a person, doing things, and acting to see the truth, it is not surprising that he can get rewards in the end.

If you want to make your life and work more smoothly, you might as well consciously use the law of attraction to help yourself.

First, you need to have specific ideals.

This ideal cannot be an empty and unattainable vague concept, but should be practical, reasonable and specific. Then focus his attention on this ideal.

From this, you can clearly know that in the previous experiment, you did not plan, review, or prepare, and hope that your results will be comfortable. This is not using the law of attraction, but opportunistic.

Second, we must firmly believe in our ideals and desires. The degree of desire for ideals directly determines the role of the law of attraction.

Finally, to achieve the ideal must be inseparable from action. The action itself does not lie in how valuable it is, but in the concentrated implementation and manifestation of attitudes and ideas.

The Law of Attraction is not a cookie-cutter chicken soup for the soul, nor is it a lie or means of self-deception.

Smart people will know how to use this law to help their ideals, regardless of whether this law is an unfamiliar theory in their minds.