Law of Attraction: The better the mentality, the better luck

 Law of Attraction: The better the mentality, the better luck

Mindset means a person's mental state. As long as you have a good state of mind, you can maintain a full mood every day. Good luck comes naturally when the spirit is up.

To live happily, one must have a good attitude. A philosopher said it well, "Since reality cannot be changed, then you can only change yourself." Changing yourself means adjusting your mentality.

How to adjust your mentality?

① Do not desire too much. Desire is endless. The higher the desire, once it cannot be satisfied, the greater the contrast will be, and the more likely it is to lose balance.

②Comparative thinking should not be too heavy. If you compare blindly, you will "compare people to people and get angry." If you compare treatment with laid-off workers, compare income with farmer brothers, and compare contributions with advanced people, your mentality will be balanced and grievances will naturally disappear.

③It is to learn to forget. Don't worry about the past, let the past pass, so that you will be relieved of a lot of worries and feel comfortable.

It is not difficult to see that with the progress of society and fierce competition, people’s various pressures have increased. If this pressure exceeds a certain load capacity, it will make people feel extreme emotions, which will bring about the consequences. It is unimaginable. If people can find an outlet for themselves at an appropriate stage, they will gradually eliminate such mental pressure and lead you to a more brilliant path.

So how should we alleviate such negative emotions?

①Learn to be quiet. Immerse your thinking and slowly reduce your desire for things. Always reset yourself to zero. Every day is a new starting point. As long as your desire for things is appropriately reduced, you will win more opportunities to win.

②Learn to care for yourself. Only by caring for yourself can you have more energy to care for others. If you have enough ability, you must try to help those you can help, so that you get a lot of happiness.

③When you encounter a situation of irritability, drink a glass of white water, play soothing light music, close your eyes, reminisce about the people and things around you, and slowly sort out the new future. It is a kind of rest and a kind of This kind of calm forward thinking.

④ Compete with yourself more. There is no need to be jealous of others, and there is no need to envy others. The more you do this, the more you will fall into an abyss. You have to believe that as long as you do it, you can too. Be happy for every improvement you make (things are not distinguished between big and small, simple things are simple, simple things are serious, serious things are repeated, and strive to be the best)

⑤Read widely. Modern people are faced with fierce competition and complicated interpersonal relationships. In order to avoid embarrassment on certain occasions, people can read widely and enrich their minds as a way to reduce stress.

⑥ Under any conditions, one cannot look down upon oneself. Even if the whole world does not believe in you and despise you, you must believe in yourself, because I believe in one sentence, if you like yourself, then more people will like you, if you want to be like yourself People, as long as you want and work hard to achieve, you will succeed.

⑦Learn to adjust your emotions and think about the benefits as much as possible. Many people are anxious like ants on a hot pot when they encounter something, because their emotions are not well grasped and simple things are complicated. In fact, as long as you have a good grasp of the key things, you will be able to handle every detail appropriately.

⑧ Cherish the people around you. In terms of language, try not to hurt you. Even if you meet someone you don't like, you should try to be roundabout, find a reason to leave and don't hurt yourself wantonly. This will not only make yourself feel too bad, but also make the scene more embarrassing. Cherish everything around you now.

⑨Love life. Absorb new nutrients every day and think differently every day. Learn more empathy, try to find new things to satisfy the novelty and mystery of the world.

⑩Only when you face your life with sincerity, love, and personality, your life will be more exciting!

Maintain an optimistic attitude every day. If you encounter troubles, learn to coax yourself and make yourself strong and self-confident. Therefore, if you want to maintain a good attitude, the only feasible way is to look at the world with a grateful heart and watch with your heart. The world, regardless of gains and losses, learn to discover all the moving things around.

To be a kind person, as far as possible to make some good destiny with all beings, and keep increasing the destiny, it will be natural and lucky.